Hey Henrique, that sounds like a pretty complex simulation! It may be easier to instead surround the hairs with a lattice and animate the lattice manually. Here are a couple tutorials that show lattices in action:
https://cgcookie.com/tutorial/lattices-as-a-corrective-modeling-aid
https://cgcookie.com/tutorial/modeling-an-ornamental-shield-with-blender-2-8
