Well its hard to argue with so many people, but i think this might be the 1% in this case. Im very new to this so bear with me. so scale was already applied, and i applied it again for good measure. Their all 1.0’s. ok so ive been playing with how the face is cut up and if you do it this way, the wonkyness changes to the other bevel. the one on the end is now correct. And the one closes and on the left is wonky now.

kinda like an M. anyways, i think its those edges in the outer corners.

so this works. I dont know whats going on here, all i know is its been driving me nuts.