hello guys,
i got further and got a pretty nice effect but its still not doing what i want.
first of all, this is how it looks now :

as you can see , the lights are there but even if i put emmision to 5000 or 10000 its not reflecting the light onto the flower plant.
yes i do get a bigger radius of light that shows off but i would like that i also reflect the light of the emmision to the surroundings.
the idea is for my final render that i keep the world light pretty low but most lightning comes from the fireflies.
i really hope anyone can help me out.